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Having two children under age 2—often called “2 under 2”—is a unique season of parenting. While it requires a lot of energy, it’s also filled with incredible moments of joy as you watch your little ones grow up close in age. ","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"paragraph"},{"data":{},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":"Read on for practical strategies to help you navigate this exciting double journey with confidence and grace.","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"paragraph"},{"data":{},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":"Preparing Your Toddler for the Big Shift","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"heading-2"},{"data":{},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":"Since your toddler is still under 2 years old, they don’t fully understand what a new sibling means just yet. 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