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You’re the first one to see their smiles, their first steps, and their unique personality. Because you know them so well, you’re also the best person to notice if they’re having a hard time connecting with others or managing their feelings.</p>\n<p>Sometimes, children need a little extra help to reach their full potential. This is where early intervention comes in. It’s important to remember that it’s not about finding a problem or giving your child a label. 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